B Positive

 

Cooper Warren Dulion arrived via emergency Cesarean section on a Wednesday morning 17 years ago.  It was chaotic and terrifying . . . for most of us.  I didn’t get to see it, but they tell me that Cooper arrived completely unphased, looking calmly around the OR as if to say, “Why the panic, everyone?  It’s all good.”  He was an 8 lb 2 oz, 21 ½ inch bundle of pure perfection.  There was no distress, no worrisome Apgar score, no need for the NICU nurses who stood ready to whisk him away.  He greeted this world and its people as if he knew that he was exactly where he belonged, and that hasn’t changed for 17 years. 

Last weekend Coop donated blood for the first time.  He liked the idea of being able to help people.  He did NOT like the idea of that help involving a needle anywhere in his proximity.  Despite his anxiety, he charmed the ladies responsible for the needles, ATE all the snacks, and somehow managed to get a tour of the back processing area.  He left a pint lighter but gained a t-shirt, gift card, and some kind of multi-tool.  He had such fun that he spent the ride home googling how often you can donate.  Weirdo.

A few days after his super-fantastic experience Cooper was notified of his blood type . . . B Positive.  Imagine that.  I couldn’t make it up if I tried.  B positive.  It’s funny because it’s true.  He is and always has been.  Positive that if you look for the good, you will find it.  Positive that it really will all work out exactly as it should.  Positive that if he tries hard enough, he can do it. Positive that all people are his people.   And positive that he is EXACTLY where he belongs. 

Happy birthday my beautiful boy.  I know that you are the one who gets to make the wishes today, but if I could borrow a candle or two, I’d wish that you always . . .

. . . be positive of your ability to make a difference.

. . . be positive that kindness counts, and the good guy really does win in the end.

. . . be positive that He knows the plans He has for you.

. . . be positive that your big, big heart is your most beautiful feature.

I absolutely adore you, Cooper Warren Dulion, from the top of your head to the tip of those big, hairy toes. Of that you can always be positive.

More than you’ll ever know,

Mommy